JEROLD J. KREISMAN, M.D., is a psychiatrist and leadingworld expert on Borderline Personality Disorder. His 1989bestseller, I Hate You, Don't Leave Me, is considered a classic ofboth the popular and academic literature on BPD.
HAL STRAUS has written five books and numerous articlesfor such magazines as Ladies' Home Journal, Men's Health, andRedbook.

A Note to the Reader.
Preface.
Acknowledgments.
1. Borderline Basics. Action Steps: A Quick BPD Checklist.
2. Fears of Abandonment. Action Steps: Dealing with BorderlineFears of Abandonment.
3. Unstable Interpersonal relationships. Action Steps: Dealingwith Intense Relationships.
4. Identity Disturbance. Action Steps: Establishing a Sense ofSelf.
5. Destructive Impulsivity. Action Steps: ManagingImpulsivity.
6. Suicidal Behaviors and Self-Mutilation. Action Steps: Dealingwith Self-Destructive Behaviors.
7. Mood Instability.
8. Emptiness. Action Steps: Filling the Emptiness.
9. Anger. Action Steps: Strategies for Coping with borderlineRage.
10. reality Distortions: Paranoia and Dissociation. ActionSteps: Dealing with Borderline Psychosis.
11. Treatment Strategies and Communication Techniques. ActionSteps: Finding the Right Therapist. Action Steps: GeneralApproaches to Communication.
12. Prognosis and Directions of Future Research.
Resources.
Notes.
Index.

A source of hope, expert advice, and guidance for people withborderline personality disorder and those who love them
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